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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What exactly bothers you about women who “don’t care”? Why does it irk you that their priorities lie elsewhere or perhaps they and even their husband think they beautiful without fancy clothes or makeup or stylish haircuts? I was exceedingly happy with my husband and life and we camped and traveled went to music festivals and laughed and danced and were in love. It was amazing and I felt incredible without being skinny and well dressed and focused on my looks. Sadly he passed away, but it was wonderful. I don’t think everyone has the same priorities as you, and it isn’t about not caring or being a “slob.”[/quote] DP. For me, it doesn't bother me if the person doesn't care or doesn't prioritize their looks. They may prioritize something else and it's fine. Time and money are limited and I get that. The ones that put me off are the ones who look down on those who do prioritize their looks. A family member once criticized me for wearing heels and another time she criticized me for wearing a dress (a casual summer dress on a hot day). Her hair is shaved on one side and she ties back the rest in a pony tail. It's so ugly but I wouldn't care except that she always cares what I wear. For the obese people (not a little overweight, but like 350 lb woman, 450 lb man), I don't care either except when they post pictures of themselves eating dessert, drinking cocktails, and generally parading themselves around like a "F U" to normal sized people. They are not beautiful on the inside. If they were beautiful on the inside, I probably wouldn't even notice their outward appearance.[/quote] So if an obese person feels like having a cocktail, you read it as an F-U to thinner people? How weird and self-centered (I.e. couldn’t they be having a drink for the same reason as everyone else, and posting the photo for the same reason also?) You sound scary![/quote]
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