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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So when will your wife see her family? She and the kids will be too far out to pop over for weeknight dinners and the kids will have homework. You will be living with your IN-LAWS all week and not helping your children adjust to a cross-country move. You will not be part of your new community in Tracy or Sacramento or wherever bc you will understandably just want to spend time with your wife and kids on the weekend. You are giving up a fed job, great schools, nice community for not that much more money in the highest COL area to hardly ever see your family. And your wife won’t be 20 minutes from
her parents. I think you will all be miserable and that you should seriously talk this decision through with a neutral third party. [/quote]

And to move to a job in a tech company in a declining industry!!!!  As though layoffs don't happen. I can't imagine taking that risk. Get a nanny and send your wife to stay with her parents for two months. You will come out way ahead financially. [/quote]
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Everything about this plan is a disaster. You won’t see your family during the week, they won’t see the in laws, you are giving up a stable career, etc. Do not do this. You would honestly be better off keeping your job and staying here and having your family move in with the in-laws and visiting them a lot of weekends and taking red eyes. That’s how awful your plan is[/quote]

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