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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a married woman, but when I was dating, I expected any man who asked me on a date to pay for the first date. I did not offer to split, but thanked them sincerely for dinner (or whatever). Maybe this was off-putting for some guys, and if there was ever a guy who didn't ask me on a second date for that reason, that is okay - we weren't a match.[/quote] What about when you asked the guy out? [/quote] PP here. The only time I ever asked a man out was when it would have been borderline-unprofessional or inappropriate for him to initiate (we had a power-differential relationship that was ending when I asked him out). I had suggested the particular restaurant and was fully prepared and expecting to pick up the whole check (because I believe the inviter pays) but he insisted on covering that and the next few dates we went on. … we’ve been married 15 years.[/quote]
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