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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been married for 15 years and 43. 20 years ago, guys always paid for dates. I can remember one time when the guy had me pay half. One guy made me pay the tip. I think they were the only ones. I think I at least offered to pay. Often it wasn’t fully clear if it was a date or not. I had lots of male friends. I have 2 sons now and I would probably be annoyed if a girl expected my sons to always pay for them. But yes, men are expected to pay for a first date. I suggest coffee for first meeting.[/quote] I will tell my son to only ask a girl out if he is happy to pay (good screening for them too!) and I will also suggest that he do casual meetups initially like coffee, sandwiches, ice cream, etc. so he never turns into one of these embittered men who feels like they were cheated. I will also teach both my children that buying a meal has nothing whatsoever to do with having sex.[/quote]
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