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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will give the OP a brief benefit of the doubt by asking a follow up: OP what do you mean by “dressed up”. Do you mean a dress and heels or do you mean jeans and a cute sweater?

Your wife not wanting to perform for you (and a dress and heels for no particular reason is a performance, especially since they typically come with shaved or waxed legs and makeup and done hair) should absolutely not be something that “pisses you off”. That’s a drastic overreaction. If your frustration is over being limited in restaurant venues to places that consider sweats acceptable, you have my sympathy.[/quote]

I'm the OP. I am not exactly sure what "performing" means. But if it means looking sexually enticing in public, I do not care about that. Nor do I care about heels or makeup. I have always thought makeup is kind of weird. But there comes a point where she has been wearing sweatpants every day for more than two years gets frustrating. I feel like its sort of a symbol of giving up on ever trying to look good for your partner. And it also has the unwanted side-effect of limiting date venues.[/quote]

This sounds like a control issue for you, then. Explore why it’s important to you to be able to tell your wife what she can’t wear/how often she can’t wear something.[/quote]

This advice does not make any sense. How does OP's wanting his wife to dress up sometimes = OP thinks it is important to tell his wife what she can wear. One is a preference, which we all have, and the other is a command. The two concepts are not remotely similar.[/quote]

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