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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the issue that everyone's getting hung up on is that this guy is breaking things off in person with the other women. Which, great. But [b]he doesn't need a "7-10 day break" from OP to do this, nor does he need to make a federal case out of it. Go have that 30 min coffee with Larla and Larlita and be done with it. It's honestly not OP's business or concern. The fact that he's giving her this much detail and making it an issue between the two of them is the flag. OP querying the situation "that seems kind of long" is reasonable. Like, why is he bringing it up at all? If he wants to make OP his girlfriend, that's all she needs to know.

tldr; dude is sketch, OP. Also the whole "I'm being punished for my transparency" is gross.[/b] I'd move on.[/quote]

Exactly this. He’s been going about his business dating others and OP for three months without a need to take a break from her - why now? And, OP, what does the break look like? He’s MIA until Day 10?  Makes sense your antennas are raised but I’m not sure it’s time to chop him yet. It may play out well and, at minimum, teach you a few things about this new dating world. It’s a ride, no pun intended. [/quote]

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