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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Question, OP.  If you were a regular who wasn’t “generally attractive,” would you think you were less entitled to this man’s attention?[/quote]
I don’t think I’m entitled to anyone’s attention, but I think it’s odd to blankly stare at someone you see on the daily when they say hello to you. I guess I just wonder what his issue is with me that he doesn’t have with other people, men and women, who he interacts with. It comes off as rude and maybe this makes me insecure, also a little hurtful. When I started working out over a year ago I was dealing with a lot of body image stuff and an eating disorder, so this just stings a little, and I can’t explain why. [/quote]

You say you have been waiving at him and smiling at him for one entire year st least once a week and he has never responded in kind. He is probably staring at you thinking if he needs to punch you in the face to make you understand that he does not want to have any social interaction with you. Why is irrelevant. Just ignore him from now on and move on with your life. If I say hi to stranger at the gym twice snd he looks at me with a blank stare and I am going to ignore him from the third time on. It is just beyond ridiculous that you still wave at him. I wonder if he has a bet on with other people in the gym how long you will keep waiving. Just stop. The why is irrelevant. This is not a novel where he is Darcy who one day will reveal himself madly in love with you [/quote]

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