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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Its called compartmentalizing folks, when he is sticking it in the woman who is not his wife, hs are not thinking of the hurt he's doing to the "woman he loves"

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totally agree. and same is true in reverse. when she allows another guy to rail her/use her, she's not thinking of the hurt she's doing to the "man she loves" ever.[/quote]

Women letting other men rail them are unhappy in marriage and looking for an exit---survey after survey after survey.  While men are the opposite--survey after survey--65% say they have a happy-to-very happy marriage and love their wives. The sexes differ about side sex and feelings surrounding it.  It's why very few of these shady relationships end in marriage.[/quote]
I am not looking for an exit, I want to have my cake and eat it or whatever. I want both. I am selfish I suppose. I am not looking for an exit, I love my DH.[/quote]

You can’t love your husband and cheat.  It’s what all the ladies says about the cheating men and their spouses.[/quote]
I feel that I can. It’s not passionate intense love with DH though. It’s a shame we aren’t allowed to have feelings for others, we are missing out. I am not talking about serial cheating. I fell in love with someone for the first time in about 20 years, it’s refreshing, I feel so alive and beautiful when I am around this other person and I believe the feelings are mutual. It’s depressing to think that this can never amount to anything. I don’t want to jeopardize my family or my love interest’s family, it’s an uncomfortable and confusing place to be. [/quote]

I understand how you feel. In my case, there are difficulties in the marriage. We are working on it but my partner is really not in a great place and I feel like I am missing out on intimacy I could have with this other person or whomever. It does feel like a waste of time and energy sometimes. I am doing it for the kids and because I don’t want to give up on the relationship. However there is a limit on what I can put in when the other person just isn’t in a place to be reasonable and generous.[/quote]

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