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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What he did was absolutely wrong, but I think it would be very very difficult to prosecute. I also think it is healthiest for your daughter to MOVE ON with the help of a professional. [/quote]

Depends on the state and the lawyer. Could be done.

They could also just press police charges and let the district attorney go after him.

Sometimes the healthiest thing for w9men and girls to do is to fight back and feel strong in their own agency.[/quote]

She needs to learn this without prosecuting this young man. She said yes. She was not threatened or forced - “I’m going to break up with you if you don’t have sex with me” is not a threat to her person.

I think he is a sleazeball - but seriously, why do y’all think 17-18 year old guys date freshmen? It’s not because your daughter is so awesome. It’s a lot easier to talk a 14 yo into sex acts (vs a 17-18 girl).[/quote]

She said no many times first and was 14! He was close to legal adulthood and at the end of high school.

[b]I would go after him if she was my daughter. [/b]

I would also do all the other stuff her family is already doing. [/quote]

"Go after him" how?    Legally?   You can't, it's not a crime to break up with someone.
Physically?  Now THAT would be assault, and then he CAN "go after" YOU legally.[/quote]

I would Look into pressing police charges, which would still be within statute of limitations.

I Would look forward  lawyer who specializes in sexual assaults against minors.

He coerced a near child into sex she did not want. That is assault against a minor and in some states 14 years old is below the age of consent for any9ne even older teens. [/quote]

I'm curious about where your line is here.

If she said no three times over the course of a month and then consented would that be ok?
What if she WASN'T having all of these issues today and was just fine?  Would it be ok?  The events still occurred.
What if she was 15?

What if she was 18?[/quote]

Age = 14 and not able to make informed consent 
Age difference= perp close to adulthood while victim a young freshman 
Victim said no many times but was drowned out.

I talk to my DD a lot and she feels that she can tell me anything, within reason. I can only take so many Tik Tok videos though 😂 I already warn her regularly about misogyny, about being taken advantage of before she is ready, about inappropriate requests (boys who send her dick pics with requests to reciprocate are blocked. I encourage her to resist validation through being sexually attractive because the online pressure on girls to be hot is unbelievable -  but encourage her to feel good about her brains, hard work, creativity, achievements, and kindness to others. I raised our son to respect women.  I strongly emphasize kindness but if you mess with my babies, I’m coming for you!
But If this happened to my DD, I would be on the war path for sure.[/quote]

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