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[quote=Anonymous]Many people are very blind to their flaws in relationships. I know a number of women who have stayed single into their 40s. For some, they are wonderful people with high standards who have just never hit the jackpot of timing and the right person. Unlucky. But for the vast majority, they have serious issues that they continue to be unaware of and thus have not addressed that get in their way. And I say this as someone who dealt with childhood trauma and abuse and definitely had serious issues (and still has them). But my gift is that I am very self aware, I have listened to hard truths people have told me about myself in the past and found ways to address those issues, and am always working on myself. I have been "lucky" but I don't think my luck is in finding my husband, I think it's in being able to be self-critical and self-aware.

Many people simply are not self-aware and it makes it hard to find a partner. Granted, some unself-aware people do find partners, but their issues will continue to plague those relationships so I am reluctant to call them lucky.[/quote]

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