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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't imagine my MIL opening my packages. What if it was a kinky sex toy?! [/quote] You got this big vibrator today in the mail. I tested it out for you and it seems to work well. XO-MIL[/quote] Lol. This was definitely hilarious For the record OP you are a saint for putting up with your MILs petty garbage while being so thoughtful. I hope your DH does the explaining as to the fact that HE doesn’t feel comfortable having them stay in the future. [/quote] Thing is, as long as I made arrangements for a sitter—my parents, my aunt/uncle, my cousin, one of our friends, my brother—it would never occur to him that his family needed “a turn.” I have gone out of my way to be “fair” about this sort of thing, and to make sure that our kids spend fairly equal time with both of our families. That stops now. From now on, if we go away for a night or a few nights, it’s going to be someone I can fully trust watching my kids. DH’s parents can visit when we are home, and we will still occasionally go on vacation with him. But I don’t even need to declare to DH or to MIL/FIL no more unsupervised visits. They will simply never be in our home alone again.[/quote] Pp here. This is totally reasonable. Honestly, if they won’t notice, then no need for your DH to make it a thing. You know your MIL will never change, so simply making this silent change is the high road. No point in confrontation. Again, sorry, this stinks and you are of course right this is ridiculously inappropriate even if the upshot is just a lack of chocolate. But on the less high road, I have found myself worrying that eating all those chocolates at once might have been more than her slight figure can stand. Is that the start of a roll around her middle..?[/quote]
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