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[quote=Anonymous]OP I think DH sucks in helping out financially or even as a parent , however you have been tolerating him for a while until you realized he spent all his money on his own stuffs not the couple stuffs. The fact that he is waiting for your daughter to be older to help out, while complaining he didn’t connect with his other daughter when she was young because the mother kept her away from him is a huge red flag! in any case it’s hard to know what is fair if you don’t answer some basic questions people have been asking. How much do you make? How much does it make? How much is the mortgage? Child support? Payment to the condo? How much is your childcare and other household expenses. I believe that if you don’t have joint account you should have equitable expenses. Like the same percentage of your salary. My guess is that you make more than him which is why you have not answered these questions. Also as other people recommended you should separate what he does for his other daughter and what it does for your daughter because there are bigger issues and this is just a distraction. Good luck![/quote]
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