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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How am I expecting a man to solve my problems. My savings bailed out his construction disaster. Really should really the whole thread.
My savings and wages are paying for childcare and my child.
[b]The question is simple is a mortgage payment an excuse for not paying childcare. [/b]For those who don't seem to understand or are disgruntled first wives how is ok to ignore obligations to one child and meet those of another.
And yes he hasn't paid for a single thing not even a diaper[/quote]

OP, there is no way to answer that question without knowing more facts. For example, [b]if my mortgage is $3,000 and my childcare is $3,000 a month [/b]and my husband and I decided that I would pay one and he would pay the other, then what's the problem?

But you're talking about a mortgage payment on a condo you don't live in, correct? So who lives there?[/quote]

NO MA'M. Mortgage is a payment towards a joint ASSET. Dissolution of the marriage requires you split that. Childcare is a COST. You can pay 1500 toward each but not 3000 towards one or the other with separate accounts.

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I'm the PP and I'm not sure why you're ma'aming me... OP isn't divorced. There is nothing wrong with spouses paying for things out of their separate accounts. I mean, show me the VA Code section where it says that can't be done. I'll wait. [/quote]
 
Because you need paper trail that youve contributed- is she on the mortgage are you on the mortgage/deed? And not every place is VA.  There is psychological harm in having one spouse pay for x and the other y. Its even worse in this case where the mortgage is being split by the two people and then she is the only one paying childcare costs. [/quote]

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