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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Totally grey here. White actually. The most common compliment I receive --  "I wish I had the guts"[/quote]

Do you really take that as a compliment?  Because they're saying "I wish I had the guts to be lazy and look terrible and not care."[/quote]

You've clearly never seen a snazzy woman with gray hair. [/quote]

No, not really.  Sorry, but no, I haven't.

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This has to be the same negative poster posting again and again.  Seriously, sweetie.  Get some help.  Angry and insecure is no way to go through life.  I’ve seen lots of women with stunning gray or partially gray hair.  I’m sure you are beautiful as well.  But outward beauty doesn’t really matter when you are so ugly inside. [b]You really need to think about why you are so unkind to complete strangers. [/quote][/b]

I think brutal honesty on this board is the kindest thing.  People come to anonymous boards and not to their friends because they want the truth.  There is a special circle of hell reserved for women like you who refuse to give the truth when asked, but who insist, in honeyed tones, that whatever it is looks great.  [/quote]

Some people use "honesty" as a reason to be hurtful.  PP, I want my friends to tell me how they really feel when I ask them for their opinion.  However, if I cut, color or let my hair go naturally gray and *I* like it then I don't want to know (or to be told) if they hate it on me.  The way I see it, it's my hair and I'm the one that has to feel good about it.  [b]Think it over... if we ask 100 people about your hair and a certain percentage tells you that it isn't flattering and you need to change it, would you????  [/b]Why change something about yourself to make another person like it?  This makes no sense to me.[/quote]

Yes, actually, if 90 out of a 100 people told me that my hair wasn't flattering, I would change it.  For sure.  Most women would, I think.

And my point is that the vast majority of people do NOT find gray hair attractive on women.  Your friends won't tell you this, but anonymous posters will.  When I ask questions on this site, I do it because I value the honest (sometimes harsh) responses.  And that is why I give honest responses myself.

I do not tell women I know in real life that their gray is aging them in an unattractive way.  [/quote]

I know a few older women who look terrible with brown hair. It’s clearly fake and they absolutely do not look better coloring their hair. At some point you need to embrace the gray or look like a clown.[/quote]

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