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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am obese and I make sure that my face is always made up and my hair always looks good, for one thing. I buy expensive work clothes and have them tailored to fit. I have a uniform for casual clothes of things that I know look nice and I don't veer from him. I buy nice shoes. I know that I have to go an extra 200 miles because thin women are judging me harshly based on my size. Don't deny it, ladies, I know it's true.[/quote] OP here. This is my issue. DC just started an at expensive private school, and I don't fit in. I mean, I never will, but I'd rather not look sloppy in front of them.[/quote] Do your best to look polished and not sloppy. Do your hair, put on make up every day. Do your nails or go get them done. If you can afford it, get a nice designer handbag, invest in nice shoes. Find a couple of uniforms that you feel confident in. Before you go to school events, or if you can afford them regularly, get blowouts - makes so much of a difference. I say all this from experience. I get regular blowouts, invest in a few nice outfits and designer shoes and bags. I don't feel as confident dropping off my son with a messy bun and flip flops.[/quote] Hair and makeup goes a LONG way. My housekeeper was very obese (has since had bypass and lost tons). She came to work in leggings and athletic type tops, but her hair and makeup always looked perfect. I always thought she looked beautiful, partly because it was clear she put effort into her appearance [/quote]
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