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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, I would be hurt. I don't see why if she is invited, you have to babysit. Just don't volunteer for it or if it's an established practice, tell her you can't do it this time. I also ask you this: when your kids were little, did she and others in your family change family vacation plans to accommodate the fact that you had little ones (choice of places or activities)? I see this dynamic in large families where everyone accommodates when the older kids' kids are born because -- yay, first grandkids! -- and fusses over the grandkids, and then by the time the younger kids have kids, it's all "your little kids are cramping our style!" and nobody cares about the later kids. A bit selfish if you ask me. If she accommodated your kids before, the least you can do is extend the invitation. [/quote]
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