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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I definitely understand not wanting kids. However, "it's hard" is not a good reason for not doing it, IMO (the one many commenters cite). The most meaningful experiences in life come from attempting and achieving hard things. I don't think having a frictionless and uncomplicated life actually makes people happy. [/quote] "It's hard" is an excellent reason not to have kids. But no one has kids because they think it will build their character. And no one should have kids unless they want them, and if they don't want them because it's hard, then they shouldn't have them. Plus, "it's hard" encompasses a lot of things -- stress, emotional and physical challenges, finances, etc. And I'm sure that people without kids nonetheless have plenty of challenges in their lives. Not having kids doesn't make your life easy -- you still have all the other stresses and challenges that people have. [/quote]
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