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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I think bringing OP would have been a ridiculous move. She knows this guy through her kid, not her social life. The only reason to bring OP would be if she wanted the two of them to fight or for the guy whose kid is on her kid's sports team to be humiliated and hate her. The way she handled it was remarkably clever - didn't box the guy into a corner where his only option was to feel like a total ass while also making it extremely clear she was not going to be accidentally trapped into going on a date with him by his ploy. [/quote]

What is ridiculous is this pretense that meeting the guy was a clever way to let him down easy. Nobody believes that crap. Hopefully the OP isn’t dumb enough to believe it.

[quote]You people are so mad that women know how to handle men that you're essentially saying she's a whore for not forcing OP to handle her business for her. It's interesting because the double bind is apparently not enough - you want a triple bind where a woman can't say yes or no and has to say "help!" so that you can turn around and call her helpless or needy or something[/quote]

Every man knows a woman who isn’t interested “handles” the man by saying no, not by setting up a “clever” non-date.

Nobody’s saying the OP needed to handle her business. She should have handled her own business by saying no to this guy. She is clearly untrustworthy because she didn’t.[/quote]

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