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+1. I’m not changing the baby’s diaper and packing up lunch at the same time. But I can quickly run down the list of things I need to accomplish and get to work. [b]I think DH gets more easily overwhelmed by household tasks. Not sure why this is.[/b] [/quote]
because he doesn't want to do it and knows you will pick up his slack.[/quote]

Why is everyone so unwilling to accept the (by far) simplest answer??[/quote]
[b]because then they would have to confront it[/b], and that would cause issues.  Throwing the "disorder" label means that they can excuse it and avoid the confrontation.

To be fair, this is not a hill to die on and trying to change the paradigm would be like moving a mountain.  I can see why women would choose to excuse/ignore it. It's just easier.[/quote]

Im the pp that said I “don’t know why” and I agree with the responses. I guess I know why, I just don’t know how to confront it. I can leave the house but then I just have to play catch up later, I can explain to him what needs to be done and be seen as micromanaging or stating the obvious, I can keep reminding and reminding but be seen as a nag. I just genuinely don’t know how to solve the issue without ultimately creating more stress and causing arguments. It almost does feel easier to just let it go. [/quote]

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