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Reply to "Wife wants to be "alone" so this means we divorce?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Mid 40s is prime midlife crisis time. OP doesn't have to be a jerk for his wife to be unhy. Sounds like they made choices together that resulted in her feeling unfulfilled as an individual. Doesn't sound like op had to be selfish for that to happen. Problem is that wife doesn't know anything beyond this marriage. Much harder to reimagine your marriage with new roles than it is to imagine life in your own. I feel for both of them. I can see myself feeling like ops wife, altho I have a career that defines me as well as being mom, wife, etc. It's more that I am exhausted by the oresso if it all, career kids, finances, family obligations. I run or delegate everything . Even the dog follows me around exclusively. So there are days I fantasize about living only for myself. No one to clean up after, cook for (and cook things they like, not me), schedule, pay for, remind, drive , organize social life for, etc. But had kids late so I'm sticking it out [/quote]
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