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[quote=Anonymous][quote]To answer the question about “dysfunctional sibling”: didn’t graduate from HS, works in a job where physical confrontations are not uncommon (bouncer at a bar), has been charged after assaulting unruly patrons a few times (never convicted), but is unfailingly loyal to me and is the most attached of all of us to the cabin [b]and would never accept a buyout due to sentimental attachment. But probably won’t always be able to contribute to maintenance due to cash flow challenges.[/b][/quote]

[quote]I know you want to keep the place, but the bolded is simply a nonstarter, and I can see why your husband would be unhappy about it.  You sibling has to realize that if he can't afford to pay for his share of the cabin, the other siblings need to buy him out.[/quote]

+ 1. What does "never accept a buyout" even mean here? You guys are acting like this brother has other choices. He can be sentimentally attached to the cabin but if he can't pay to maintain it as an adult that won't work. He can be a guest of you and your other sib, but not part-owner.

Come on OP. I'm on your side about the cabin but you guys are enabling this brother. I'm not judging his life choices. Be a bouncer, great. But I don't know too many vacation-home-owning bouncers.

Lots of messy family dynamics here. Your H sounds like he has no tolerance for that and I don't blame him. Keep the cabin but separate the family issues. That seems like the only fair compromise. If you can't, I might be inclined to sell.
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