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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I never broke my vows. My husband did. I don’t need to make mine again. He can pledge his with a post nup.[/quote] Really wish I had demanded a post-nup detailing favorable divorce, child custody and support arrangements after finding out about the infidelity. It would have made me feel much more secure. Unfortunately, 20 years ago, the advice I got from a very well-respected and high powered attorney was that these are unenforceable at that time. DH begged me to stay together, of course, because that came at no cost to him- make a few promises, attend therapy a bit, lie a LOT about what actually happened and then once I’m sucked back in slowly revert back to cheating behaviors. It was all a huge waste of time and effort. [/quote]
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