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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I definitely want to marry. I thought the normal next steps were to move in, live together for 3-6 months, and get engaged. She is not “ an option”. I would ever live with someone I didn’t intend to marry. I can see it from her perspective now after reading the replies. I was always taught that you need to live with someone to see if you’re really compatible, and breaking up is easier than calling off an engagement. Now I know.

I want her to feel certain that this is the real deal. I want her to feel secure and know that we will get married. I will start looking at rings. I don’t want to lose her over something dumb since I planned to propose in the fall anyway. [/quote]

The answer to feeling certain this is the real deal is making it the real deal, and you seem to have come to that conclusion.  Nice job listening to people who don’t see it your way and understanding that perspective, it will be a vital asset in a successful marriage.  I wish you every happiness![/quote]

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