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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The reality is that men can find a replacement partner after a divorce much easier than a single mom can. I’d hesitate to divorce on the notion I can just get a new husband. At least if I’m doing all the work I can spend his money. [/quote]

+1. Exactly. But the narcissism in women today is so incredibly high due to social media use. They think they deserve another high-quality man after they dump the one they already had! Then they are shocked -- shocked! -- when men aren't interested in them at age 35+ with young kids in tow. Why would they want her when they could find an uncomplicated 29-year-old without kids[b] to make a family of his own with[/b]? Why would he want to raise another man's kids when that dad is still in the picture? Meanwhile, the husband she left is an attractive prospect for women if he makes good money and has a great job. Women do not even consider how the typical man thinks. They just jump back into the dating scene and reality smacks them HARD.[/quote]

Kind of irrelevant when you consider the fact that the majority of women don't want to re-marry after divorce.

And I can promise you that uncomplicated 29 year olds without kids do not find divorced dads an attractive prospect, good money or not. I was that 29 year old and rejected them all. I also rejected them all when I was in my thirties.

But the bolded part is very telling. A family "of his own"? In this scenario, the man already has a family. Just goes to show that the typical man leaves his kids behind. [/quote]

What is so hard about understanding that a 37-year-old never-married man would like to have his own biological children instead of raising another man's children who do not see him as their father but he is likely financially responsible for? "You can't tell me to do that! You're not my dad!!" Wow, how does a handsome, high-earning, never-married man with options turn that down? Get real![/quote]

What is so hard about reading? The PP thinks an uncomplicated 29 year old woman without kids wants a divorced dad, while his ex-wife won't be able to get a date. 
Why do men insist that divorced mothers will never meet anyone (because childless men want their own kids), but childless young women want to give an older man a second family when he's paying child support to his first? No uncomplicated young woman wants a divorced dad. [/quote]

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