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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: the situation around our 2nd home has escalated to a point where EVERYONE is now involved. Including relatives we haven't even heard from for years. Bottom line is: no means no. It's ok to stay for a long weekend but to live at our place for months, rent free is not OK. You are exhausted? Imagine that, so are we. You don't have the RIGHT to STAKE A CLAIM TO SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T BELONG TO YOU.[/quote]
Wait these extended relatives are contacting you pleading the SIL’s case? Are there additional circumstances here that haven’t been added such as she will be without housing this summer or lost her job? Just trying to understand why these other relatives want to be involved in making her case?

I think her request is rude and an automatic no. I think it’s nice that you are open to inviting family for the weekend, although adding SIL and 4 kids seems like a tight squeeze even for a few days. It’s weird to me that people presume to be able to use your home. Especially since you spent much of last year there and I would assume you would this Summer as well. [/quote]

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