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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We conceived our first child in August 2013. Her sex drive cratered immediately. Zero sex during that pregnancy. She had some tearing during delivery, developed thyroid issues too. Add in a bad sleeper and return to work, and we had essentially zero sex for almost a year after he was born. So basically 20 months.

Things started to improve a bit, when literally the first time we had full sex in a year, she got pregnant (surprise). Sex drive completely disappeared at that point (2016), parathyroid issues developed, weight gain, financial stress for a time, and then severe job stress (from a job that helped alleviate the financial stress).

Basically, aside from the occasional encounter that I have to insist on (and she ends up enjoying), I haven’t had a real sex life in 7.5 years. We probably average one exhausted, half-hearted encounter every few months. She’s anxious about another pregnancy and can’t stand IUDs, so the plan is for me to get snipped when COVID ends. She says that will help, but who knows.[/quote]

My wife said the same thing and I got snipped. That was close to three years ago, we've probably had sex 4 times since. I've accepted it. Once our kids are out, I am out.[/quote]

The good news is the vasectomy is useful for affairs.[/quote]

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