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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For all of those here acting like a forgetful spouse isn't worth keeping, consider how much more work you'd have to do if you're on your own.  I can guarantee you that it's harder to do everything by yourself. [/quote]nope. Wouldn’t have the CHRONIC messes, mistakes, setbacks, lying, and arguing from the other spouse. [/quote]

Hahaha have to agree here in good fun. The messes my husband has created has taken away hundreds of hours of mostly my, but out time, over the years to recover from. The aftermath of dealing with a stolen car, flooded kitchen etc...

He has also gone away on extended business trips where I do need to handle everything myself and it is so much more mentally streamlined. When you rely on someone who is unreliable day to day it is very stressful. Backtracking to clean up literal and figurative messes is also very taxing.

All in all I love my husband and I am here for the long run, but I’m just saying that it is real work and a strain. Because at the end of the day I am doing most of the work, and also holding patience and space for someone who really struggles with it. When they create a mess I am their partner in cleaning it up.

Think of it as having a really unreliable partner on a case, client, or transaction with you. It actually makes all the work more cumbersome. [/quote]

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