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[quote=Anonymous]I am always in favor in being able to accurately assess the situation and responding in the most productive way possible.

In the daycare example, if this is not a regular occurence and the daycare director has already apologized, why continuing harping on it? It's not productive. The stakes are fairly low and it's not a big deal.

In the contractor example, the stakes are much higher. It seems that the contractor needed a firmer hand in order to get everything done correctly. So the productive response would have been to be more assertive.

OP's wife is probably over dramatic and over exaggerate things but sometimes, that can be the right response. OP can be a little too passive and easy going but sometimes, that can be right response.

What's more concerning is that they are not working as team and don't present a united front to the outside world.

I don't always agree with how my dh does things but I trust him and his judgement completely. If it's a big issue, we will have a private discussion. However, I would never publicly undermine him. 
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