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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I posted before that my sister s the same way, but I am the one who actually has been there for our parents. You have to let go of caring what other people think. If they believe her narrative and get sucked into her drama that is on them. What is the worse that could happen? Are you afraid they will come at you and gang out or exclude you from the family? Are you afraid of anyone thinking bad thoughts about you? I was like that, but there is freedom in letting it go. People can form any opinion they want and if they only use biased date, then they have no idea how to evaluate information.

You can't be part of a game if you refuse to play. Do not engage. Just pretend she is a squawking bird that does not understand English. [b]Remain calm and do your thing. She doesn't get to control you. You can yell at squawking bird or try to reason with it, but it won't do much. It's just a lot of noise.
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Also, be prepared to have her try to screw you out of your part of the inheritance. As far as I am concerned all of my sister's horrible behavior is between her and God. It is not my place to retaliate or argue or set the record straight with others. I need to let go of all that, do what I think is right and hope I find out how her shit comes back in her face.[/quote]

Agree. Also OP, she has to live with whatever she steals or whatever she does, not you.  She does not define you, terrible people don't define you - YOU define you. People aren't stupid, they know the truth - much more than you think!

"Poor, poor sister helps everyone and robs everyone...." c'mon.  She is making a joke of herself.[/quote]

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