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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm still really pissed that my DH decided to do this in the middle of a pandemic as if we didn't have enough going on. It does allow me some time away from others though to process although it is very lonely as well. Less interruptions to take my mind off it. I found an individual therapist who is helping me process it.[/quote]

I found out about an affair 3 weeks into the start of the pandemic. I was thankful there were no social obligations and no small talk I needed to make on sports sidelines, etc.  I could hide out at home and people just assumed it was due to the pandemic.  I didn’t have to face anyone and put on an awkward false “happy”. Or go into an office with swollen bloodshot eyes.  I couldn’t even eat, sleep or function for a few weeks.  You are right though—it’s worse because there are zero distractions to take your mind off of it.  It just loops through your head 24/7. Only having teletherapy vs in-office therapy sucks.  I hate videos/phones.  I much would prefer to be in person.

I’m sorry, OP.  This is the absolute worst.  Finding out after 25-years that somebody is not who you thought they were.  That they could act and lie so well.  It’s creepy.  And don’t get me started on the skank.[/quote]

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