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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not. You married the wrong man. You have a husband problem, not a societal problem.

My husband would never do this. He wouldn't want to, first of all, but even if he did, I would put a stop to it pronto.[/quote]

I bet for each one wife saying her husband would never do this, there are five who feel like OP, plus a couple more whose husbands are like OP's but they don't even know it's wrong, because patriarchy.

F**k the patriarchy.[/quote]

Damn straight!

And all the women claiming that you’re the loser for marrying a loser are just as much tools of the patriarchy as the legions of crappy husbands. Bye Serena! [/quote]

So anyway, of course all husbands are *capable* of being selfish assholes. So am I! I am *capable* of it. Do I act like that 99% of the time? No way. Am I literally capable? Yeah.

I'm woman enough to admit that sometimes I lean on my husband even when I don't particularly need the help. There are whole days when he does more than I do, and not even for some noble reason like I'm sick or have a busy work days. But overall, we have balance.

I am so very sorry you married a dud. But it's just not true that most husbands/fathers are like that. If you're a low-value woman who had to settle for a loser, I am sorry about that. But that's just not everyone's reality. [/quote]

(this is addressed to PP, not OP)

Talk about victim blaming..."low value woman????????????"

WTF. So, you think everyone gets the husband they deserve??
And life is always fair.

You really need some humility honey. And you better watch our for Karma, because you are now wearing a target when it comes to your husband say...cheating on you.  Which of course, would not be his fault, it would simply mean he got stuck with a "low value" woman. For God's sake...what is wrong with you. [/quote]

Low-value meaning you don't value/prioritize yourself. That is what I meant, but I can see how there was another meaning that could be read, so I am clarifying. [/quote]

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