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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband of four years cheated with single mom(s). We had no children. I left. Life is too short for that BS. Best of luck whatever you decide to do.[/quote]

Great decision.[/quote]

If I didn’t have kids (currently 12 and 14), I’d already be gone.  Seeing what a cheating, alcoholic father that divorced his mom when he was 7 ended up creating a narcissist....I will hang in getting a great post-nup and emotionally disengage until the kids are in college.  I’m not bothering with custody schedules and moving the kids between homes.

But dreaming of a bright future.  I’m well off in my own career and stand to get A LOT in a divorce.  I am spending the next 5-6 years planning a new life.[/quote]

NP. Asking seriously--PP, if he's still cheating, and you plan to stay:

Does he know you know about the cheating? If so, do you just not have sex with him for the next five years, and is he fine with that since he gets it outside?

If he doesn't know you know he cheats, do you continue to have sex with him so he won't realize you're onto him, and do you plan to do that for 5-6 more years?

I see posts on here all the time where a DW says she's hanging on to the marriage for the kids/to get more in a divorce, when she knows her DH is screwing around. What I can't figure out is whether these DWs keep having sex with a cheater. Wouldn't wives be too disgusted and furious, and assume he could give them STDs? Even if the hate-sex was physically good, the idea of years of it, with someone for whom one had zero respect or love left--I cant fathom how that wouldn't be awful. Not judging those who stay, just puzzled by that aspect of staying. [/quote]

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