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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Uh, never.

Here's something I can't believe needs to be said:

If a man asks you out, he wants to sleep with you. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.

He also will be interested in your thoughts. He'll be curious about your tastes in music, food, architecture, art, etc. But first and foremost he wants to be inside you.[/quote]

Well that is blunt.  I would say yes to date with a man for many reasons, with attraction being one, but sex is not the first thing on my mind.  [/quote]

Guy here - when I asked a woman out the first thing I was interested in was her saying yes to going out with me. If she said yes and the date went well my focus was on getting a second date. At that point I’d start thinking about sex and hope that she might think about it too. I was pretty sure that women don’t think about screwing some guy on the first date. If I was wrong in that assumption I guess I really missed out! [/quote]A woman knows if she's going to screw you in the first ten minutes of meeting you.[/quote]

I took walks regularly with a male friend for about nine months before it ever occurred to me that I found him attractive "in that way".  Initially he was not my type at all, simply a nice guy to get some exercise with.  But when I finally saw him in that light, then all bets were off, and our sexual chemistry, attraction, and compatibility on every level were nearly perfect.  Best Sex Ever!

We were definitely close enough to marry and live happily ever after, but our lives went in different directions (geographically).  We still remain good friends, mainly through communicating regularly by text, and honestly it is always a magically happy experience on those rare occasions when we meet in person (as we live in distant parts of the world) over the years.  But we have now both been married (to others) for many, many years, and are always good about not crossing any line.

He remains one of my life's great gifts to this day.  And this is a man I can honestly say I was not attracted to at all in the many months we regularly spent together initially.[/quote]

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