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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] That my Aspie husband has no interest in friends or socializing, that he's very self-centered and cares nothing for social niceties. Obviously my closest friends realize some of this, but none of us explicitly talk about it. What would be the use? He's in his 50s and not going to change. [/quote] You married him.[/quote] Hate hate hate when people say this. Like we're all supposed to be fully mature and fully astute judges of all character flaws when we are young and dating. To those of you who made a perfect choice early in life, awesome and congrats. But have some empathy and respect for those of us who did our best, grew up over time, and choose to honor what is good alongside what is flawed...because life is complex and people are complex. Married 32 years and happy I've hung in there through the hard stuff.[/quote]
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