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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Literally have never heard a woman becoming full time SAHM in the DC area after kids.[/quote]

Really, I know several. A few of them have some kind of income, like they sub at their kids school sometimes or have a hobby they make money from sometimes. But not making real money, maybe just enough to put in a savings account for a rainy day or to be able to go on nicer vacations.

I agree it's not the norm because the cost of living is high here, but I know people in many different living situations. Many two-income families with jobs outside the home (well, normally) but also many other set ups including where one partner works from home with their own business or where one spouse takes on periodic contract work but can stay home with kids during the summer, etc. I don't get this thing where people only know two-income families. I think it must be people who only socialize with people they work with. If you know your neighbors or get to know other families at school, you'll find a lot more variety than that.[/quote]

I know several especially among military and foreign service wives[/quote]

Almost every single family in my neighborhood is dual income with kids. It probably just depends on your social class. I can see either really low income wives (somebody said military or substitute teaching) or wives with REALLY high income husbands (like > 400k) quitting their jobs. But in my neighborhood, where the average individual earns $150k, I think it's probably the sweet spot where halving your income does not in any way make up for saved daycare or other expenses, and where it's just too much of a sacrifice long term for the woman to stay home. On the flipside, having just one 150k income is not really enough in the DC area.[/quote]

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