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[quote=Anonymous]Lots of assumptions here.

OP, you know in your gut what will feel safest for you. I responded previously but I wanted to pitch the idea of therapy for both of you once more. Individual, then couples. There’s no way to know what the future will bring any of us in our relationships. You have some extra challenges.

A counselor will help you figure out what each of you needs to stay in this relationship and how to evolve if it’s not the best thing for you. Speculating on your husband’s internal life will never bring you truth, but talking with him and listening to your own heart will help you find some resolve. You don’t have to participate in his fantasy but find out how to support him, what that means and if it impacts your relationship. If this is something he’s doing in private but he is honest with you about it meaning that it’s an article of clothing and not an entire lifestyle maybe that is something that will feel more comfortable when it’s not as new. And if it’s not that’s OK too. I would have a hard time with my partner keeping something so enormous from me. I think that secret is very loaded for both of you. Talking about it is bound to help in someway.

I wish you both well. [/quote]

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