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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are really set on this big weekend thing, then you are going to have to deal with the fact that others may not "get" it. That's not the same as judging you.

If you are really this frayed about hearing people's opinions about your wedding event, then you should just get married any way you can, safely, and get on with life. That's a sign that you've had enough of wedding stuff, so be done with it already! If you can't have a sense of humor about people's opinions, then you need to move on from the event. Waiting two years is going to mean two more years of opinions on this topic.

Some of us who are already married happily don't get the big wedding stuff. It's not because we already had "the day we wanted." Big weddings have become other things in recent years- media events, family reunions, friend reunions, instagram photoshoots. If that's what you want to do, fine, but don't expect everyone to understand or appreciate all of that.[/quote]

This! While, yes, many of us got the day we wanted, rest assured it did not involve a cutesy hashtag, social photo shoots in addition to standard photography, a personalized graphic, multiple engagement events, fully programmed whole weekends, Will You Be My Bridesmaid ceremonies, transparent fund-our-honeymoon requests, coordinated and filmed bridal party dances, and on and on. [/quote]

Wow, b*tchy much? OP never said her wedding celebration was going to involve any of those things. I can’t believe you are admitting that you had the day you wanted and yet still have the gall to judge OP knowing nothing about her actual plans.

Is it fun to walk around so bitter all the time? [/quote]

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