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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The reason you feel you're being judged is because you are and, deep down, believe there's a kernel of legitimacy to the judgement.

It's one thing to have a big celebration of your wedding at a time more people can safely join you.  It's a different matter to go through a “big ceremony and reception” a year into your marriage - it's a pageant, a re-enactment, a performance, not a wedding.  It reeks of attention-seeking, not celebration of a major life event.

I get how disruptive and disappointing it is to have an expectation for something and, through no fault of your own, not have that expectation met.  Yet, that's where we are right now.  Even if you have that “big ceremony and reception” a year into your marriage, it still will not meet your expectation because circumstances will have changed.  [/quote]

This. OP, I'm sorry that the pandemic ruined your wedding plans, but your wedding will be the day you actually get married. This stunt you're planning to pull is immature and selfish. Either delay getting married until October 2022 if having this B&B weekend event is important to you, or get married October 2021 and find a way to have a special day then without the re-enactment one year later.[/quote]

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