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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Regular sex is a must. If you think differently, for gosh sakes let your fiance know before you walk down the aisle. I love my wife. She's a fabulous mother and a partner in life. But I have been starving for sexual intimacy for a decade. If she only knew how much of a pushover I'd be on what to remodel or when to get a new vehicle for her if she was taking me to bed regularly.

I work towards keeping the marriage together for my kids, but it would be so much more fulfilling with even once a month sex. Even bad sex.

Do not marry someone you don't want to regularly get naked with. Just don't. If they do something that makes you not want them (gain weight, piss you off) then work through it. Husbands and wives were meant to be having sex. [/quote]

It doesn't work that way. The relationship changes in many ways, people mature, bodies change and with age comes loss of attraction.

[b]It's not a must, but if you found a fabulous mother and partner well then you hit the lottery compared to most people.[/b] [/quote]

I completely disagree with this. That's like saying if you found a ferrari with no engine you hit the jackpot.  His wife is an awesome mother but a dud for a wife.

That's the equivalent of telling a woman who is being cheated on that if her husband is a great provider, fun to be around and a good father, so what if he cheats, she hit the jackpot.   Being cheated on, being denied sexual intimacy are equal violations of the marriage contract
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