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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is advice from John Gottman— go read his books (if I had to pick one piece of advice, it would be that. ) 1) learn about the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. 2) 80% of the fights/disagreements you have now will be the same fights/disagreements you’ll be having in 20 years. Learn to negotiate something that works for both of you and don’t try to “resolve” all disagreements. 3) For a marriage to remain good, you need a ratio of 5:1, positive to negative interactions. Drop below that and you marriage is in jeopardy. [/quote] My advice also is to read John Gottman.[/quote]
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