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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you want a divorce then tell. Otherwise, remain silent.[/quote] This. [/quote] Agree. If you are committed to the marriage, admit your mistake, want to understand what happened--that's great. But no need to tell your spouse. I hope you have done or will do the work of understanding why you did what you did and whats going on in your relationship. Those are the real issues, not the affair. The first thing that would end a marriage is being 100% honest about everything. That's ridiculous. I should tell my spouse literally every time there's a hint of odor, they don't look perfect, they say or do the wrong thing? Of course not. I'm anti-infidelity but let's be practical. It will cause immense pain and trust issues if your reveal now. Work on the issues that led to the affair, that is the real kindness.[/quote]
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