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Reply to "If Affair was in the past, do you disclose?"
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[quote=Anonymous]No, do not tell. The pain cannot be erased. However, get yourself into some therapy. Not therapy that rationalizes the cheating, but therapy that brings up your stuff and is difficult. I have been there and there are many many therapists who will hold your hand and tell you that you were justified in cheating. You weren't. I wasn't. Figure out why you did it, if it was you, fix it. If it was you (and it always is) and you also figure out that the marriage is lacking, try to fix that. If that isn't fixable, leave on the best terms you can. But, save your spouse the pain of knowing.[/quote]
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