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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DHs kids def knew they were divorced. We’d all have dinner sometimes for birthdays or other events. He mowed his es wife’s lawn and sometimes ended up eating dinner there with her and whatever kids where around. It was okay. He is NOT the nostalgic (as in sleep with the ex) type if that’s what you worry about. [/quote]

I don’t think OP is worried about that.  I think OP is upset because after a year, her boyfriend is still keeping her away from a big part of his life (his kids).  As long as he isn’t integrating her into family gatherings, she knows he’s not thinking seriously of marrying her or anything like that.[/quote]

Yes this is it. I thought we were moving, in one direction, and now it seems we're not. I want to be flexible as I know this is a sensitive thing for the kids, but I don't know where to set the line of being flexible or stupid.[/quote]

Op this is good for the kids and has nothing to do with you. My parents divorced when I was 2. I still wanted a picture with just them on my wedding day, despite loving my very involved stepparents deeply. [/quote]

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