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[quote=Anonymous]Yes,I'd be okay with it.

Yes,my boyfriend is okay with this.

I kicked a cheater to the curb and went as no contact as I could. Parallel parenting and built my new relationship.

Boyfriend at times did a hi and bye to my daughter or half an hour of play before she went to her dad's. When she was having problems of not wanting to go to her dad's place, it was my boyfriend who suggested for her wellbeing that ex could visit and sleepover in the guest suite. I was the one who wasn't in for that.

After a year daughter was clearly unhappy about not doing things together with both parents. Child psychologist told me it has nothing to do with faking being back together. So by now I do engage in the odd outing or dinner. And indeed, we granted her her biggest wish Xmas Eve in the old home - me and cheater ex. Never in the world would my boyfriend want to be part of this! I could do without it.

If I had a partner with kids I'd let them figure it out and go along with whatever works.

Ughh and referring to a pp above,I would NOT want my partner to tell his (teenage) kids he's found someone who is so special to him. It is embarrassing to them. At that age no one wants to hear about the romantic love life of their parents. I'd be worried they'd find me utterly gross before even meeting me 
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