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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dating over a year.

The appearance of nothing in their lives changing.[/quote]

The kids know their parents have divorced, right?

You’ve posted twice and I’m already finding your passive-aggression tiresome.[/quote]

I don't mean to have a tone.   To be honest I'm not sure, if they know or not, I initially assumed that they did.  I have not met the children yet.  This is not a graduation or birthday dinner. This is something they have been doing, [b]ex wife has made it clear that I will never need to attend dinners[/b]. Both don't want to upset kids. We had previously discussed me meeting his kids.[/quote]

This is creepy.  Once you are divorced exwife cannot dictate what her former husband does.

OP, I'd invite the kids and the Dad for a July4th barbeque at your house.  Dad already will have custody.  Tell Dad you'd like to host the family for the holiday.  You want to grill out and you think it will be fun.
See what he says. It will be telling.

IF he refuses because it may "upset" the his children I'd kick him to the curb and get back in the dating pool. There are good quality men out there that will treat you with respect.
You are not a one night stand or a hook up and you have been dating this guy for a year.

They dynamics between him and his exwife are weird and the exwife seems to control his time.[/quote]

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