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[quote=Anonymous][quote]When women do this - they are looking for a personal connection with you. If you aren't going to make one, then they are not going to view you as a friend. They want to know you understand them personally and that you could be a confidant. Sitting there smiling and saying nothing or changing the subject implies to them that you are *not* interested in knowing about them "personally". Talking about what books they read or what they watch on tv - that's surface stuff really. It's what someone struggles with each day that is important to them and they want to know how receptive you are to that part of them.[/quote] THIS!, vulnerability is a beautiful thing and it draws people together. Doesn't mean you should become Debbie Downer but come on, share a struggle/flaw or two. It shows your human side. [/quote]
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