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[quote=Anonymous]^Gottman does not touch at all on narcissism, personality disorders or childhood traumas as motives for cheating. It’s a complete waste until a cheater with any of those issues gets intensive individual therapy FIRST. We made the mistake of doing it and the counselor never lifted under the hood. It was a band-aid which ultimately just gave him motivation to go deeper underground and in a way he felt validated. Therapy when done poorly has dire consequences. I am a biochemist, that works in theoretical research so I have trouble trusting in psychology in general. It’s not chemistry, physics or such— more like astronomy or witchcraft and when done wrong it is very damaging.[/quote]
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