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[quote=Anonymous]respond to text :yes, I'd like to discus this tonight.

then tonight, you have the talk. Look, you dont need to prepare anything or try to anticipate him. just speak your truth. You've been ready for some time now to make a commitment, he's not been ready. You need to ask him, "do you have any hesitations about getting married to me?". the only acceptable answer is no.  But even then, honestly, I kind of think that is just a bad sign that you are, still, driving this conversation, doing all the work, his silence, his "we can talk about it if you want to" (eg, I dont want to!), none of this feels good to me and I have o idea who you are.

Dont let him give you a half answer again, just enough to keep you going.

Yes, its hard to cut someone off you've b een with for two years. It will be harder

in another two, when you're 34 and realizing he's never going to be the guy you need.

Honestly, I think you should break up or take a break. If he really is in love with you and is as excited to spend his life iwth you as you are with him, he will not let this happen. He will beg you, and get a ring and set a date.  And honey, that's the kind of guy you should marry. Not someone who cannot, after 2 years, talk about commitment. 
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