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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are both jerks.  He should have asked her politely to move her seat up a bit - it was hitting his knees.  She could have taken the hint and moved her seat up a little to give him more room.

It's not that hard.[/quote]
He never asked her to not recline her seat
Therefore he was in the wrong
You cannot always expect people to know what you are thinking, feeling. Language and polite language has been invented for a reason[/quote]

He objected pretty much as soon as she did it though - it's not clear if he said something first and she ignored him or what happened.  It's not like she was unaware that he was being bothered by it.  She could have lifted the seat up a little as a compromise.  They were both jerks.[/quote]
But he didn't say anything
He was not authorized to start banging on her seat
He could have spoken politely about it instead[/quote]

We didn't see what happened when she first reclined the seat.  We DO see that she says nothing and ignores him completely when he starts tapping on her chair.  Since we don't what happened when she actually reclined her seat, we don't know if he said something or not.

We do see that she says nothing to him, though.  "Excuse me, sir.  Your knocking on my seat, would you please stop?"  Why?  Because she knows that she has bothered him and is in a show down with him.  She is as wrong, if not more wrong, than he is.[/quote]
Violence is never right. Banging on chairs is not right
He could have spoken out instead of banging on her chair

In the video he is relentlessly banging on the chair that someone is sitting on.
End of story

Whether or not she should not hay reclined her seat is not relevant
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Tapping on her chair was annoying, not violent.  Even the rough bump that he gave her chair was not intended to hurt her.  It was more along the lines of "you're bugging the crap out of me, lady, so I'm going to bug the crap out of you."  I honestly do not understand why two grown adults would behave this way.  They both behaved terribly. If she had just moved her seat up a little that probably would have avoided the whole thing.[/quote]

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