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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's great that you want a third. Ignore the bitter naysayers, DCUM can be very anti-natalist. You don't want to pressure your husband, but you also don't want to resent him. Can you keep talking about it with him and tell him that he is your #1 priority but also how you are feeling? Are there things you can agree on that would help with logistics? Childcare, more help etc? Also having older kids will make it so different, not long before your oldest can babysit which makes it so much easier to have flexibility. But I think maybe you need to probe deeper as to why your husband isn't thrilled and see if there is something that could be done. Perhaps he is enjoying having more time with you and worries a new baby would take that away...[/quote] It doesn't matter that DCUM is anti-natalist. It only matters that her HUSBAND is.[/quote]
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